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Not Your Mama’s Rocking Chair – Calling Seasoned Women to Take a Stand

March 24, 2016 By Patti Cotton 3 Comments

 Calling Seasoned Women to Take a Stand

What are the opportunities for seasoned women to contribute at a higher level?

Convention assumes that this part of the workforce is on the way out – and bias reflects this.

But let’s put the puzzle together:

  • By 2030, 1 in 3 Americans will be 50 years of age or older. And 1 in 5 will be 65 or above, and few people are retiring at that age.
  • The future of business is gender-equal.
  • Diversity drives innovation.
  • Women are often still an untapped source of greater potential.
  • There’s no substitute for experience.

What picture have you come up with?

My vision is one of seasoned women rising to greater positions of influence.

Women in the workforce are often a huge source of untapped potential for a variety of reasons (that’s another article!). Additionally, people are not retiring at the young age of 65 anymore. Consider, then, that since diversity drives innovation and brings perspective, this means that we aren’t paying enough attention to supporting and elevating the potential leadership capacity of our more seasoned women.

Why should we focus on this?

    1. Companies recognize they need to remain competitive and in the black. The compelling business case for elevating the female factor in the workforce has already been made. And doing more with less is now the name of the game for those entities that want to remain viable and competitive. Delayering old hierarchical models results in assigning more responsibility throughout the organization. And quite simply, supporting full engagement and potential of all employees, men and women of all ages, is the smart thing to do in order to best benefit the company.
    2. Mental development and the capacity for greater leadership doesn’t stop at a certain age. Human beings are capable of continually growing their mental complexity over the span of their lifetime. This is a somewhat “recent” discovery, as psychologists and scientists in the 1980s declared that a human being’s mental development stopped in his or her 20s. Thirty years later, we now know that continuous growth in mental complexity is possible. This means that people of a seasoned age can also learn “new tricks” – meeting the demands of the world through advancing in social and emotional intelligence skills and complexity, allowing them to step into greater roles of responsibility and leadership.
    3. Women need female role models and mentors all the way to the top. Women often don’t aspire to higher leadership because they aren’t sure they will be recognized and rewarded. They don’t see other women modeling the way, with few or none at the top. In fact, millennial women are leaving companies in large numbers, reporting that they don’t believe there is a chance for them to ascend the career ladder. What if we could support and encourage experienced older women to step up, no matter what their position, to take greater personal leadership by mentoring and modeling?

So where do we start?

As with any sustainable change initiative, companies need to work at all levels to support employee growth and potential. But the women themselves also have important work to do. They need to affirm their own worth, recognize the opportunity, formulate a vision for their leadership, and seek strategic support for this vision.

And as with any worthy endeavor, it is going to take all of us to get there.

 

Patti Cotton

Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

3 Keys to Creating Your Leadership Legacy

February 11, 2016 By Patti Cotton 2 Comments

“If this were my last day, would I still be willing to do what I am about to do?” – Steve Jobs

One of the most important moments in your life may be when you decide to move from seeking ambition to meaning. The ambition to succeed turns out to be a never-ending pursuit to a destination that is just beyond the horizon.

On the other hand, meaning (or significance) is focused on filling a need that is larger than you. It’s about creating a leadership legacy through selfless service so that you make impact now, and far after you are gone – through bettering the lives of others in whatever you undertake.

Many professionals long for more meaning in their work and life and to create a leadership legacy, but fear letting go of the pursuit of success, thinking they will lose their aspired financial goals. The irony is that living your leadership legacy risks nothing more than a mindset shift to how you approach your life and work. This can often result in greater financial gain because you elevate to optimal levels the way you engage with others.

As you think about creating your own leadership legacy, keep in mind the following three points:

Get your purpose on, and follow its trail.

Do you know the difference between your purpose and your present role?  If you don’t, you may headed for deep disappointment, and even a loss of identity at some point. One of my clients, whom we will call Anne, first reached out for help when a political shift at the top of her company caused her to lose her position.

“I stayed too long,” Anne opined. “I was ready to leave three years ago, but I just didn’t know who I was without this role. And now I don’t know what my purpose is anymore.”

The problem was that Anne was confusing her purpose with her role at the company. Your purpose reflects your values and specific ways you feel called to make an impact, and your position is simply where you live out your purpose at this time. Should you lose a position tomorrow, or decide that the passion is gone from what you are doing and want to move on, you take your purpose with you. It simply takes different shapes as you take on different roles.

What is your purpose?

Anyone can make a huge impact – so bloom where you are planted before you consider a different flowerpot.

It’s not about how large a position you hold, but about the way you approach your work and life, that creates your leadership legacy. Leadership is all about making life better for others – filling a need.

Recently, I was talking with Sylvia, a well-respected executive in the insurance services industry.

“Dad was a man who mentored people before the term became popular,” she said. “We kids knew that if he spoke, we should listen. And he was known for shepherding others in the community. His advice was always solid, because his motives were to help others be better people. That was his leadership legacy.” She admitted that this influence has greatly affected her success today, and she has begun mentoring others in her workplace in the same way.

Did Sylvia’s dad hold a prestigious position in the world? Not by most people’s standards. He was a modest farmer who decided that he wanted to help others become more of who they could be, starting with his own children. But, what a tremendous legacy he gifted the world through affecting his family and community.

Are you called to bloom where you are planted, or is it time to move? What working and life conditions do you need in order to create and live your leadership legacy?

Nourish your purpose in mind, spirit, and body.

You may have a mindset that has moved from success to significance, and your spirit may be willing, but are you living a life of balance that reflects and nourishes purpose?  What are those activities and distractors that need to be eliminated?  This may sound harsh, but we can allow many “good” things to get on our calendar, only to find that these keep us from the “great.” A client I will call Mary formed an initiative to help young women reintegrate into society after having served prison time.

“This is my purpose,” Mary shared. “I want to help young women reunite with their families and get back on their feet so they can become meaningful contributors to society.”

The problem was that after Mary inspired community leaders about the initiative, she did not follow through on their counsel and connections. She was provided with many offers to fund and help get her initiative underway, but she always had an excuse as to why she could not do the work involved. When she called me, she had burned many bridges, and she needed help. What we discovered as we talked was this:  Mary would have the time to follow through if she let go of some activities crowding her calendar. These activities were simply things that sounded interesting to her, but in fact, were a convenient way not to move forward. At the bottom of this was Mary’s fear of failure. We regrouped to form a plan that would yield results, focusing on the right activities and endeavors, eliminating those that did not serve…and she got underway.

What do you need to let go of in order to make room for your leadership legacy?

I’d love to hear where you are in the process of your own leadership legacy. What excites you? What scares you? What do you need in order to move forward?

 

Patti Cotton

Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

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