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Designing Your Leadership Identity

August 24, 2016 By Patti Cotton Leave a Comment

 

The Who in the What That Makes the Difference

You are taking on a greater role, and you want to excel in your leadership.  How do you do that?

Here’s the working plan to get ahead for many out there:

  • Formulate a plan. Investigate how others stepped into more leadership, and begin to do likewise.
  • Work on strengthening your leadership competencies. Take advantage of resources that help to identify which leadership competencies you want to strengthen, and work on these.
  • Develop a support system. Build a strategic network to help fast-track visibility and viability.
  • Take on projects and initiatives that showcase your leadership abilities.
  • Ask for the promotion / larger contracts / more business.

But, wait. 

Something is missing from this list.

It’s really the first thing that should happen.  It’s the very thing that will help you contribute your best work.

It’s the “who” in the equation.

Your unique leadership identity.

Who are you, and who do you need to become, in order to rise to your best leadership?

Defining this makes the difference between good leadership and great leadership.  Living the answer will help you contribute your best work.  It will keep you motivated as you work through the challenges and tests that forge greater leadership.  It will also help distinguish you from the competition.

If you haven’t taken the time to define the who, you have bypassed the one step that will set you apart as you undertake the what.  Leading with purpose, on purpose.

Here are some questions to help you begin designing your leadership identity.  You may find it useful to journal on these.

  1. What do you stand for? If you could answer one question for humanity before you leave this earth, what would it be?  Why?  And how is your work important to this?
  2. What unique value do you bring to the table? If you weren’t part of the equation in life, in work, what would be missing?  How would it affect outcomes at work, in the world?
  3. How will you use this to make a significant imprint in the world through your work? Work without purpose is fleeting and empty.  What leadership legacy do you want to be remembered for?  And what do you need to do today in order to begin?

What does your unique leadership identity look like?  Can you describe it in one or two sentences?

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Patti Cotton

Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

When You Get Distracted in Conversation

August 4, 2016 By Patti Cotton 1 Comment

 

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3 Ways to Come Back to Center

It was definitely a tense moment for Kate. The conversation was serious, and even though she deemed it important, her mind had wandered off. What to do?

She remembered the three-step refocus exercise I had given her some time ago, and quickly put it into action. If you find yourself in trouble during a critical moment, try these steps in the order you see them here:

  1. Adjust your body to an open, forward position.

Lean in toward the person speaking, place your hands on the desk, and refocus your eye contact so that you feel riveted.

  1. Encapsulate or mirror.

If you have lost just a bit of their last thought, ask them to pause and allow you to encapsulate what they have said so far. “Hold on – let me encapsulate what we are saying so far…here’s what I hear you saying…”  Then at the point where you originally lost them, pause, and wait. They will generally pick up the thread and fill in the blank for you.

  1. Heighten your show of deep interest.

Ask a question, such as, “What else is behind that?” or “Tell me more.”

Of course, if you have lost the conversation entirely, it’s best to be honest about it. However, practice the three steps for the rest of the conversation to stay on track and to show visible interest to the other party.

When have you lost focus during a critical conversation? How did you recoup the situation? (Click here to join the conversation!)

Patti Cotton

Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

Taking Your Problem-Solving From Good to Great: The Missing Step

June 29, 2016 By Patti Cotton 1 Comment

Taking Your Problem-Solving From Good to Great
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One of your managers has two employees who argue often about which one of them is responsible for certain tasks assigned to their area…not just once, but a few times over a span of months. Other employees are complaining.

The manager has reported to you that he has had to intervene more than once to solve this, and finally sent them to a conflict management seminar last month. Yet, you just received a report that the two employees are at it again.

You’ve summoned the manager, and will ask him to terminate the two immediately.

But – are they really the problem?

Sometimes the conflict or challenge we think we have identified is not the real problem at all.

Problem-solving is a critical skill that does not receive enough attention in most executive development programs. Yet this one area is the one that most often holds professionals back from being more effective.

Most often, poor problem-solving can be due to just one critical step that is overlooked – getting to the root cause.

You see, the two employees aren’t the root cause of the problem. And because they are not, the problem will arise again and again, no matter who replaces them.

A classic problem-solving model will look something like this:

  1. Identify the problem.
  2. Determine the root cause of the problem.
  3. Come up with possible solutions.
  4. Select what you feel is the best solution.
  5. Implement the solution.
  6. Evaluate the outcome.

Many people will jump over the second step, reacting to what they see as the problem, but which is actually just a symptom of the root cause. This means that any solution they attempt may stop the immediate crisis, but it won’t really fix things.

So how do we get to the bottom of things?

A simple “5 Whys” technique will solve quite a bit.

The 5 Whys technique was developed by Sakichi Toyoda and used within the Toyota Motor Corporation at a critical stage in its manufacturing development. It’s a technique used to explore the cause-and-effect relationships underlying a particular problem.

Let’s see how it works with the example of the two employees:

Two employees continue to create a disturbance in the workplace (the problem).

  1. Why?
    They continue to argue with one another.
  2. Why?
    They do not agree on who will perform which tasks in their area.
  3. Why?
    Each thinks he knows who should perform which task, and their opinions differ.
  4.  Why?
    Their roles and duties are not well-defined so as to clarify who owns what responsibilities within the area.
  5. Why?
    The manager has not taken the time to review roles and responsibilities and to clarify these with his reports.

Now, we could carry this further and add a couple of “Whys,” and this would show that the manager’s boss has not taken the time to investigate why the manager cannot stop the problem.

You see, even though the employees are adults and they are responsible for how they conduct themselves, the root cause of the conflict, unless remedied, will tend to fuel more conflict, no matter who replaces these employees.

So before you react to a perceived problem next time, try the “Five Whys” exercise. I’m interested to see what insights this might provide for you!

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Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

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