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Has Your Leadership Expired?

June 13, 2018 By Patti Cotton Leave a Comment

Has Your Leadership Expired?
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There is much buzz about “the organization of the future” as the top business focus around the globe. Indeed, in a world-wide survey conducted by Deloitte Touche Tohmatsu Ltd, the focus takes first place among 11 other key issues facing executives today as they ask themselves how to keep their respective companies sustainable into the next generation and beyond.

This makes sense. What leader doesn’t want his or her company to move into the future successfully? Those leading realize that, as technology and shifting customer demands transform the business landscape, they will need to restructure the organization, including many processes, roles and responsibilities, and other moving parts in order to deliver services and products.

But leadership needs to change, too.

In order to lead the organization of the future, to support required new approaches, ways of thinking, doing, workforce shifts, and so much more, leaders will need to up their game.

Is your leadership up to it?

Or is it out of date?

Top tenets of the organization of the future include operating at a faster pace, adapting more quickly to market demands, acquiring new knowledge more rapidly, and embracing dynamic career demands.

What will the leaders of today need to do in order to prepare for this?

The answer lies beyond a traditional emphasis on horizontal development, which concentrates on acquiring additional information, skills and competencies.

Instead, leaders will also need to add a focus on their vertical development – developing more complex and sophisticated ways of thinking.

This only makes sense: a more complex world mean that the organization needs to respond in kind.

To do this, we need a more sophisticated way of seeing and making sense of things so that we can lead effectively.

Here are some highlights of vertical development. Do you reflect these in your leadership?

  • Strategic Thinking 2.0

Your strategic thinking sees many patterns and connections. Gone is the black and white thinking of the past. It’s time to become comfortable with uncertainty as the norm instead of having a high need for certainty.

  • Leading Change

Success is no longer defined as achievement of individuals and teams, but a realization of a shared vision. Change is embraced as a culture and is a collaborative, ongoing process.

  • Leading Across Boundaries

Are you focused on the success of your own area of responsibility? This will be termed “siloed thinking,” and replaced by working in partnership with other functions. Brain-trusting will become a regular way of thinking and doing.

How do you develop these traits and practices in yourself, your team, and your employee base?

Nick Petrie, author of “Vertical Leaders,” www.CCL.org, outlines a 3-pronged approach that can support your growth initiative:

  1. Intense stretch experiences

Provide periodic “bursts” of learning stimulation by providing a challenging work initiative or project that stretches current thinking and skills.

  1. New ways of thinking

Hold periodic meetings with an outside facilitator with the intent of challenging beliefs and behaviors to develop higher thinking. During these meetings, choose two to three difficult business issues to surface beliefs, biases, and mental models so that you can collectively challenge these and shift thinking.

  1. Strong developmental networks

Use peer coaching to see through the eyes of different stakeholders and learn how to work on real-life issues incorporating multiple considerations.

As you review the suggestions above, you no doubt recognize that these kinds of shifts require dedication and time. However, without this commitment, your enterprise will probably become a casualty of the coming changes. Making the effort to meet the future now is an investment that will surely pay off today, as well as tomorrow.


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Patti Cotton

Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

Three Quick Ways to Recapture Your Executive Edge

June 6, 2018 By Patti Cotton Leave a Comment

Three Quick Ways to Recapture Your Executive Edge
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Are you feeling a state of overwhelm, a loss of drive, or a chronic state of stress as you lead?

These are signs that your “executive edge” is slipping. Not only can this keep you from doing your best work, it can quickly demoralize you and throw you into a low-grade funk. In fact, if left unchecked, it can lead to burnout – a debilitating state. The loss to your company is great; the loss to you personally may be immeasurable.

When you are leading, you can’t afford this.

How can you quickly recapture your edge before you lose control?

Strengthen the foundation.

Your executive edge is built on a foundation of drive, focus, and energy. If one of these areas is not nurtured, your edge will become wobbly. In fact, you won’t notice at first – the process is insidious.

Early symptoms of edge loss can be detected if you find yourself in one of the following situations:

  • You find you are regularly pulled off “into the weeds” by other projects while you attempt to concentrate on what’s important.
  • Your desk is full of work that feels like a daily grind instead of a forward move to bigger goals.
  • You carry a low-grade source of tension that keeps your brow furrowed. (Hint: are your neck and shoulders perpetually knotted up? Your chest tight?)

If you identify with any of these situations, it is time to recapture your edge by strengthening its foundation.

Here are Three Ways to Recapture Your Edge

1. Refocus your efforts.

Have you been pulled off in directions that have taken you away from what is most important? Do you find it hard to get back on track?

A moderate loss of focus means you need to review your 90-day plan (your quarterly action plan supporting your yearly goals).

A severe loss of focus means revisiting your long-term and short-term goals supporting the company, outlining a new 90-day plan that supports this, and actually blocking off “closed door” time on your calendar to work on what is most important.

2. Revive your drive.

If you are feeling that work feels like drudgery or a bit of a grind, there is a good chance you have lost your drive.

If you want to test this out, go back to your “why” – the reason you do what you do.

What is the bigger picture? Why does the company exist? How does it make life better for the world? And how do you play a part in this?

Revisit the answers to these questions daily. Remember why you do what you do.

3. Eliminate hidden energy drains.

If you carry a low-grade source of tension, this indicates an unresolved conflict of some kind. Over time, this stress can cause a loss of energy, focus, drive, and actually develop a poor outlook and some significant health concerns.

Identify those sources of tension and conflict, and make a decision as to how to resolve these. As you let go of old baggage, you will find that your stress levels will diminish and you will feel much more energetic.

When you are leading a company or area of responsibility, your edge needs to be present so that you contribute your best. And of course, on a personal note, life is too short not to enjoy living and enjoying your best life.


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Patti Cotton

Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

When Stakes Are High-How to Make Better Decisions

May 30, 2018 By Patti Cotton Leave a Comment

When Stakes Are High-How to Make Better Decisions
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We are faced with thousands of micro-decisions daily…what to eat, where to park, whether to stop and get coffee…

Then, there are stop-and-reflect decisions that take more contemplation…where to go on vacation, how to juggle family time with a current big project, when to get that new car…

And finally, there are high-stakes decisions. Those “bet-the-company” decisions that require careful consideration, weighing impact to the immediate and future state of the enterprise.

In this last case, how do you decide what is gambling and what is calculated risk?

How do you make sure you have everything you need in order to take action – and how do you prepare for this?

Often, we base our decision-making on previous experience – ours and those of others – and what has worked in the past. Or we gather our executive team together because they embrace the vision and culture of the company, and we thus use the collective brain trust to come up with solutions we feel are best.

But there are dangers in using one or the other of these approaches by themselves, even though this is how most executives arrive at “bet-the-company” solutions. And unfortunately, making a wrong move might set your enterprise back significantly.

How do you make sure you have what you need in order to make a best decision for the company that will lower risk and maximize return?

Here is a checklist for good decision-making with some practical tips you can use right away.

1. Be sure your brain is functioning at top capacity.

Your days are filled with meetings, phone calls, and other interactions that require non-stop information download. However, your brain has little time to process all this so that you can integrate and use the information into situations where it would be helpful.

Be sure you take a minimum of two 10-minute breaks daily where you literally sit and do nothing, allowing your thoughts to wander. When you do this, you permit the brain to process what it has been fed so that it can apply the information.

2. Identify the real problem before coming up with options.

Be sure you separate issues from root causes.

For example, if you are weighing whether to reorganize, why are you doing so? And what is underneath that?

Get to the root cause to be sure you are addressing what really matters. For more, see my article on Toyoda’s 5 Whys.

3. Keep the bigger picture in mind.

Remind yourself of the vision and revisit your organizational goals and objectives before considering solutions. This will provide a solid framework of reference as you go into brainstorming mode.

I have seen many an enterprise run after a shiny object because the competition is doing so, without fully considering whether it makes sense for the vision, mission, values, and key objectives.

4. Be smart in gathering research.

You will want to consider best information and multiple perspectives. Identify best sources as you gather information, and develop a set of questions that shed light on lessons learned.

Play the devil’s advocate and include information that argues against popular practices.

And as you reach out to tap into the wisdom of others, involve only those key stake-holders/best thinkers that can put aside personal agendas and undue influence because of the personal relationship they share with you. Invite those who aren’t afraid to get creative and to think outside the box.

5. Shine light on your assumptions and biases.

Write these out so that you can ask yourself how much these are interfering with your best thinking. This will be especially helpful as you gather to brainstorm with others on the short list of potential solutions.

Articulating your assumptions and asking others to do the same as you meet together to discuss will help surface potential hidden roadblocks to bigger thinking.

When a company becomes focused on one magic answer, it can distort a greater perception of reality. If the executive team heads down this path with such a flawed mindset, it will become arrogant and defensive to other ideas outside of its own. This can eclipse answers that bring greater return on many levels.

6. Keep your eyes on the horizon as you weigh risks and impact to support short- and long-term goals.

If you find that you or your team become granular before completely assessing business impact at the organizational level, stop and regroup.

If people jump into problem-solving mode at division and individual levels, they may be inadvertently blocking a best answer. If you or a colleague begin making comments like, “We’d have to shut down the XYZ division if we did that, and this would cause a loss of LMNOP,” or, “Well, if we do that, James will quit and we don’t want to lose James!” then you need to table those.

Once you come up with answers providing best and greatest impact to the company as a whole, the next line of questioning involves examining what this would impact – and if there are alternative solutions to what seems apparent.

Further, you might find that you are allowing certain personalities or pet divisions to dictate strategy – a deathly path.

7. Don’t forget to factor in the cost of indecision.

Very often, the plethora of ideas that come to play can be overwhelming. Be careful not to allow the process to trail out too far.

Many a top executive has tabled a critical situation for so long that the costs associated with inaction have been irreparable. K-Mart, Borders, and other companies that decided to wait come to mind.

If you are in a first round of brainstorming discussions, collectively agree on a deadline by which you want to target a best solution. Reverse-engineer meeting times from there, and be sure you have someone track the discussion with notes so that you can drive a powerful agenda going forward each time.

And a last word…

  • Good decision-making requires that you rely on intuition and experience while remaining open to new ideas.
  • It asks that you involve people in the process who are not afraid to get creative while keeping the company’s best interests at the helm.
  • And It demands courage and fortitude to do the right thing once you have made your decision.

I’d be interested to hear about your current decision-making process and how it is working for you!

HOW MUCH

DO OTHERS REALLY TRUST YOU?

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Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

Are Your Business Partnerships Hurting You?

April 4, 2018 By Patti Cotton Leave a Comment

Are Your Business Partnerships Hurting You?
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Whether you represent your own business, or you hold a corporate responsibility, your company thrives on good business partnerships.

When these are healthy, they can be powerful in helping you leverage your business growth.

But if you have a business partnership that isn’t smart, it can actually damage your business and professional reputation.

How can you tell whether yours are hurting you?

Here are Five ways to assess your business partnerships.

1. Is the business partnership purpose-driven?

Does the partnership move you closer to your vision and goals? Many partnerships are founded on fleeting fancy.

“It seemed like a good idea at the time,” bemoaned one executive. “But the energy it requires has really steered us off into left field.”

If a partnership isn’t supporting your ultimate purpose, you are choosing to compromise your endeavors for the sake of shiny objects. Time to get tough.

2. Is the business partnership a positive experience?

Is it enjoyable and easy to work in this partnership? Or does it feel like a struggle each time you interface with one another?

If you dread that next meeting or interaction, ask yourself what lies underneath. Is it simply a matter of learning to communicate differently, or are you just not a fit for one another?

3. Is the business partnership productive?

Are you seeing results from your partnering? Or is the relationship one long conversation leading to another without any real action or outcomes? If you are holding space for a business partnership that does not yield results, ask yourself why. There may be a conversation that needs to take place to see how to produce.

4. Is the business partnership mutually beneficial ?

Can the partnership equitably benefit both of you? Are you and the other party well-positioned to be able to contribute to one another?

Many a partnership has been formed out of mutual appreciation – and not because they can truly benefit one another in some kind of equitable manner. If this is your case with a particular relationship, you may want to adjust how much time and effort you devote to it.

5. Is the business partnership an edifying one?

Does this partnership reflect highest integrity? How can you trust this? If you haven’t done your research, do so before committing to the association.

Does the partnership add value to both parties? If you and the other party are “better together,” or the better for having associated, then the answer is a resounding “Yes!”

Make sure your business partnerships are smart, productive, and trustworthy – and that those who partner with you can say the same of you.

HOW MUCH

DO OTHERS REALLY TRUST YOU?

​Learn the two vital parts to trust and how they can help you become a more highly effective leader.

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Patti Cotton

Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

Is Your Compassion Hurting You in the Workplace?

March 21, 2018 By Patti Cotton 1 Comment

Is Your Compassion Hurting You in the Workplace?
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Is your ability to have compassion for your colleagues hurting you?

Some of you have told me that when you show you care for others in the workplace, you become drained of energy. You discover you are the “go-to” person when problems arise or when people need a shoulder to cry on.

Others have told me it is hard to make tough decisions that could negatively affect others, and still feel compassionate.

If either of these situations hit close to home, don’t blame it on compassion.

Blame it on poor boundaries and a misunderstanding of what compassion really is.

Do you need to stop showing others you care? Not at all.

But when I talk about compassion in the workplace, a lot of people bristle and throw words like “soppy,” and “gutless” around.

“We had a ‘fluffy’ CEO,” said one manager. “Everyone loved him. But he could never make the tough decisions we needed in order to hold people accountable.”

Others roll their eyes and tell me that when they show compassion, an endless stream of needy people line up at the office door for counseling, advice, and a sympathetic ear.

“I’m absolutely spent,” said Jan. “People have so many problems and see me as a mentor. I can be there for them because I listen well and really care about the people here. But it seems like when one problem disappears, another arrives, and they are back at my door the next week with something else.”

However, compassion is anything but gutless or fluffy. And it is not being the “therapist on call.”

True compassion takes great courage to embody – and it’s vital to good leadership.

Compassion means to hold others with positive intent, to feel concern for their well-being.

It does not mean to be on call to fix others’ problems. And it doesn’t mean avoiding making the right decisions even though some may not like how it affects them. It simply means that you need to care about others and hold them in positive light.

So what does compassion really look like in the workplace? And how do you practice it?

Here is a quick checklist for you to sharpen your ability to show compassion and keep healthy boundaries:

1. When others bring you their problems, ask yourself the following:

a. Am I the right person to address this problem?

People may come to you because you have an ability to listen and sift through problems. However, the issue they bring to you might belong in another office. Is the problem of a work nature, and if so, who is the right decision-maker that can help them resolve it? Is the problem of a personal nature, and thus better discussed with those parties directly involved, or with a counselor? Begin to triage in this way so that you can redirect as appropriate.

b. Is the person bringing me the problem asking for help in solving it?

Sometimes, people just want a sympathetic ear. However, if you have someone who continues to come to you about a particular problem because you are good listener, you may want to ask them what they want to do about the situation. People can develop a chronic need for sympathy.

c. And finally, fixing others’ problems for them when they should be stretching their problem-solving skills doesn’t help them to grow.

Allow your employees and colleagues to “adult” by taking a coaching approach. Learn to ask them questions, such as, “How do you feel this should be handled? What possible solutions have you thought about?”

Then, if they are still stumped and you are the appropriate party to help them address the problem, help them to brainstorm with more possibilities, if needed.

2. Holding people accountable is compassionate and, you might say, the ultimate way to love others.

Confronting the tough stuff that holds your employees back will allow them to grow into more of their potential, be a greater contributor to their team, and thus support the enterprise more effectively. And that means that everybody wins.

3. Making tough decisions that may adversely affect some of your employees doesn’t mean you don’t care about them.

It means you ultimately care about everyone. Supporting a healthy enterprise provides good and meaningful work for the people who work there. Pleasing some people to the exclusion of the current and future health of the organization means hurting everyone.

Where in your practice of compassion do you need to recalibrate?

HOW MUCH

DO OTHERS REALLY TRUST YOU?

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Patti Cotton

Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

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