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Four Tips to Help You Build Good Political Skills

August 22, 2018 By Patti Cotton Leave a Comment

Four Tips to Help You Build Good Political Skills
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The term “political shark” is well-known to many. We use this term in criticism because it has a negative connotation of someone who is self-serving and uses such savvy to do whatever it takes to move ahead.

But if you are a minnow and not a shark in this arena, it is time to learn how to swim better and faster. Because politically skilled people are able to maximize and leverage relationships in the world to foster connections, trust, and influence others – all things that are necessary for transformational leadership.

If you have everyone’s interest in mind – yours, theirs, and the organization’s interests – your ability to network and to influence others in order to accomplish personal and organizational goals can be transformational.

In fact, Gerald Ferris, a management and psychology professor at Florida State University, says that a political shark can be genuine, authentic, straightforward and effective, conjuring up a much different picture than most of us tend to have. Ferris says that there are four behaviors to political skill: social astuteness, interpersonal influence, networking ability, and apparent sincerity.

How do you develop this skill? How do you learn to navigate “workplace waters” to get things done in a way that is mutually beneficial?

Here are 4 tips to help you begin building your political skills.

1. Build your network.

Build it with many different groups, both inside and outside of the organization. Your networking ability is key to cultivating relationships. And relationships can develop into followership to help you reach targeted goals.

2. Listen deeply.

Be genuinely interested in your network, and listen deeply. Make the interpersonal connections to build bonds and trust. Tend and care for these connections with genuine interest.

3. Be confidently respectful of others and yourself.

Your sincerity in respecting your interests, the interests of others, and of the organization makes the difference in developing strong followership and mentoring others to do the same.

4. Connect the dots.

Social astuteness is important to political navigation. Understanding how your interests and the interests of others can be mutually beneficial as they support the organization is what creates a true win-win situation.

Of these four steps, which one do you estimate you need to work on most? Mastering all four will help you not only to become more influential to get things done, but will also allow you to develop more meaningful, fruitful relationships.


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Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

Do You Suffer from Executive Isolation?

August 15, 2018 By Patti Cotton Leave a Comment

Do You Suffer from Executive Isolation?
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Who is in your tribe?

It matters, if you want to remain effective and relevant as a leader.

If remaining so is important to you, you need a tribe that provides you with the nourishment you need to flourish. This tribe should fully support you in your endeavors. And it should also challenge when you do less than your best you so that you continue to strengthen your ability to lead.

Without this kind of tribe, leaders feel isolated and alone. They buy in to the false adage that “it’s lonely at the top.”

That stoicism will damage a leader’s ability to lead.

If this is you – if you are suffering from executive isolation – it is time to form your tribe.

Can you identify with any of the following?

  • 60% of all leaders quietly admit they didn’t feel fully prepared for their new role, and that it was necessary to hide this in order to build credibility with others. They reported feeling lonely and unsure because of a lack of support. If this is you, remember to differentiate between your ability to lead and the fact that there is a learning curve to any new role
  • Leaders must make tough decisions that others might not understand, so they do not feel free to share these or discuss them with others. They have nowhere they can take this to brainstorm and come up with creative solutions. If this is you, you are compromising your decision-making abilities and leadership effectiveness.
  • Leaders must hold a lot of confidential and/or sensitive information. This is stressful and burdensome, promoting a feeling of isolation. If this is you, the cost of this kind of stress can be far-reaching and hamper your ability to perform.
  • No leader has all the answers, but they seldom share this fact because they want their employees to have confidence in them and in the direction the company is headed. This is you, if you feel the need to keep significant thoughts and feelings to yourself.

Executive isolation – the dynamic that arises from the situations described above – is insidiously damaging to one’s leadership effectiveness.

A personal tribe for the leader is the solution.

Being part of a tribe where you can take your fears, doubts, and foibles, seems foreign to the person in power. How does that work for the person at the top? And what does it look like?

Here are the needed ingredients for a leader’s tribe (or for any tribe, for that matter!):

1. Nourishment

A leader’s tribe must provide nourishment in the form of healthy ways of relating, healthy connections, and deep and genuine bonds. Human connection is necessary to sustain life, and healthy human connection is necessary to support your highest and best.

2. Confidentiality

Respect for your situation and your stories is paramount. Feeling as though you can trust your tribe with all your “stuff” allows you to fully divulge what you need to without fear of compromise.

3. Support

Bringing deepest thoughts, fears, doubts, and aspirations can feel risky – yet every human being, no matter how accomplished, has them. Your vulnerability should be met by your tribe with genuine support so that you feel acknowledged, accepted, and able to confront where needed.

4. Challenge

Your tribe should love you where you are, and yet love you too much to allow you to stagnate there. You need to be challenged to grow, to smoothen rough edges, and to be called out when you are playing small. Frank feedback with love and respect is invaluable to your ability as leader to flourish and move successfully into the future.

5. Accountability

Your tribe should have your best interests in mind by holding you to your commitments. This is how true and lasting growth can best occur. If you do not have a source that provides this for you, the potential in you will go sadly untapped.

Leaders feel lonely and assume this is par for the course. Yet the right social connection with trusted tribe makes all the difference in how you can evoke continuous and honest growth in your ability to lead.

Who is in your tribe?


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Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

Three Things a Leader Needs to Get the Mojo Back

August 8, 2018 By Patti Cotton Leave a Comment

Three Things a Leader Needs to Get the Mojo Back
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Leading is challenging.

But it should also be energizing and exciting.

If you as leader have lost the drive you used to feel, take heart – there are three things you need to focus on in order to get back on top of your game.

In fact, if your actions don’t inspire, motivate, and empower, it is time to regroup.

Inspire

When your employees are inspired, great things happen. People follow inspiration. As you inspire, your workforce feels a sense of belonging and commitment, and they become more engaged and productive.

And, lest you think you must be charismatic in order to be inspirational, take heart. In a recent employee poll, traits such as humility, empathy, openness, and high regard for others were named among the 33 traits identified as being inspirational (Eric Garton – “How to Be an Inspiring Leader,” Harvard Business Review, April 2017 ).

Motivate

When you bring passion and positive energy to your workforce, you spread an infectious attitude that supports high morale and keeps stress at lower levels.

Incentivizing your employees to do their very best goes far beyond offering higher wages. Find out what motivates your executive team members (hint: each will have something different to share). Things like feeling a part of the company’s success, learning to move a career ahead, personal development to step into higher personal leadership, receiving acknowledgement and recognition in a certain way – these are just a few examples of what really motivates people.

Do this – and teach your team to do likewise with their own teams. You’ll create an incredibly motivated workforce and a higher level of retention.

Empower

Demonstrate trust. Clarify the ends instead of the means, provide them with any non-negotiable parameters, and then let them spread their wings.

Explore where you can delegate, outline your expectations as far as results, and simply be on hand for questions.

Don’t know where to start? Ask them. What projects or responsibilities might they like to assume in order to flex their leadership skills?

And here’s a question I use with my clients to help them think outside the box: If you decided to take a six-month sabbatical, what would you need to delegate in order to feel that the company could move ahead as per usual?

If you will work on these three areas, you will find that you have not only reanimated your workforce, you will also recapture your own drive and commitment to lead. A win-win.


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Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

What Should Keep a Leader Awake at Night

August 1, 2018 By Patti Cotton Leave a Comment

What Should Keep a Leader Awake at Night
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As a leader, you are consumed with many moving parts.

These are some of the cycle of thoughts that keep you awake at night.

  • Holding on to good talent.
  • Keeping the business units aligned and performing at their best.
  • Increasing revenue while keeping costs down.

But what should keep you as a leader awake at night is a bit different.

Facing this issue head on will help you rest well, because it has a universal effect on all those areas that are the current causes of sleep deprivation for most leaders.

It has to do with moving into the future successfully. And there are three steps you can take that will help propel you forward.

The organization of the future is already here. It is yours, if you want to accept the challenge. Three things will help you set the right foundation so you can move forward with much greater ease. You’ll find them outlined below, along with some great reading materials to help you do so.

Three Ways to Help Move Your Organization into the Future

1. Assess your ability to adapt.

How effectively do you flex with change?

These days, it is no longer a question of coping. We work in a global marketplace, where a business shift in China means impact on business in Southern California. Agility is de facto a top focus for the leader. Do you find yourself resisting change or embracing it?

For more on a growth mindset that will help you sharpen your agility and adaptability, the following book will help: Mindset by Carol Dweck, PhD.

2. Maximizing your talent.

At the team level, you should be asking yourself how you can empower your team to help you lead. You may already be great at empowering great talent, but have you thought about pooling their brain trust on issues you normally own as part of your bailiwick?

Begin to bring your executive team together on issues you normally take care of, and present these for discussion and learning. Not only will you be mentoring at a greater level for succession planning, you may also learn a few things that will help your decisions to become your best.

For more on “teams leading teams,” see the article “The Symphonic C-Suite: Teams Leading Teams” by Deloitte experts Agarwal, Bersin, Lahiri, Schwartz, and Volini.

3. How can you get ahead of the curve?

Can you actually predict trends before they happen? If so, your competitive edge will now take you firmly – and first – into the future.

Does this sound impossible? You can actually grow your visioning skills to make the “what if” a palpable tool for your strategic planning.

To flex your ability in this, begin by reading the book Anticipate: The Art of Leading By Looking Ahead by Rob-Jan de Jong, PhD. Expand your visionary capacity with practical tools provided by this Wharton professor to change your ability to stay ahead of the curve.

Here is what we know: the organization of the future is here. Whether we accept the challenge depends on continuously sharpening the skills to do so. Let me know how you enjoy these resources.


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Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

Three Ways Humility Can Make You a Better Leader

July 18, 2018 By Patti Cotton Leave a Comment

Three Ways Humility Can Make You a Better Leader
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Rick Warren once said, “True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less.”

In a business world where ego has often been confused with strength and vision, proposing humility as a leadership trait has, in the past, been difficult to accept. Yet today, we realize that in order to lead well and make impact, bringing out the best in others by putting their interests and the interests of the company first is paramount.

This requires leaving your ego at the door.

Top-down leadership is, in fact, outdated and counterproductive. In the business world, we have witnessed terrible situations where this approach has gotten out of hand, and ego has given way to hurting many people on a large scale: Martin Wintercorn and the Volkswagen scandal, Hisao Tanaka of Toshiba, Martin Shkreli of Turing Pharamaceuticals… (For more about this, see my article “Beware of Hubris Syndrome.”)

Through these situations and many other lessons learned, leading with humility is paramount.

Today, even when a company’s organizational chart still resembles a pyramid, the roles and responsibilities throughout the enterprise call for leadership at every level.

Ownership and autonomy are fostered up, down, and sideways throughout the enterprise. Accountability is still king, but the difference now is that it is mutual. Shared decision-making is embraced. A culture where the people come first naturally produces best outcomes because it promotes in the workforce the feelings of trust, purpose, motivation, and engagement.

Since humility creates the type of environment that is needed for the organization of the future, we must intentionally incorporate it into leading. Being selfless with the larger agenda of leading an organization and primarily concerned with the well-being of the organization and the people in it is what works.

Here are three ways your own leadership can become even more impactful with humility.

1. Stop micromanaging, and empower your people.

Where are you hoarding a “top-down” attitude in your leadership?

Do you find yourself reticent to delegate because others might not do it as well as you? This is an indication that you are not empowering your team – and this means you are short-changing the company. I’ve coached many executives and business owners who fear letting go. If this is you, come up with a plan to mentor so that you can effectively support the present as well as the future.

2. Listen and learn to model personal growth.

Keep yourself on an honest and supportive growth journey by joining or forming a group of like-minded leaders who are willing to share, introspect, encourage, and hold each other accountable.

Be open to the ideas and perspectives of others in your company and receive feedback as a gift and not a criticism. Modeling your own growth allows others to embrace their own development opportunities and fosters a strong and productive learning culture.

3. Admit your mistakes and course-correct.

Are you avoiding having to deal with a poor strategic move? Perhaps you have hired a key individual who has turned out to be toxic. Or it may be that you have turned the company’s attention to a new initiative that is damaging its ability to deliver services or products to your current customers.

If you are sending out messages such as, “That’s just the way he is – just work as best you can,” or “Once we get through this, things should settle down,” you are modeling avoidance.

Instead, model accountability to them and the organization. Decide on a plan to course-correct, and implement it. Show your people that it is human to make mistakes – and that it is true leadership to deal with them and learn from them.

Humility is not being servile or weak.

It is being strong and confident enough to keep your focus on the bigger purpose and all that goes into making this a success. And that is true leadership.


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Patti Cotton reenergizes talented leaders and their teams to achieve fulfillment and extraordinary results. For more information on how Patti Cotton can help you and your organization, click here.

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